There are many things you can choose and aim for in this life - many qualities you can manifest for yourself. Health, success, prosperity, love - and Happiness.
Happiness is a quality that comes from inside yourself, and can only be found and lived if you are willing to fully open your heart. Happiness is a heart based and heartfelt thing. If it comes from any other source, then you may call it happiness, but in truth, it is not.
So - if you really, really, want to build your life and your expression of self on a foundation of happiness, be prepared to be fully open, fully expressive and to be motivated at all times by Love and by Joy.
All else and anything less than that will have to be weeded out. Yet, believe me, it is worth every moment of constancy and commitment, as happiness - lasting and true - is the greatest, most wondrous quality imaginable. When you let yourself be happy, you know, every moment of your life, that you are fully alive. Gratitude will fill your heart, life will flow through your veins, laughter shall readily bubble up inside you and whole-hearted compassion will be felt.
I will help you and guide you if you choose this way in the world - but first I ask you to search your heart, mind and Soul. Ask yourself if you can really and fully commit to this much openness. It takes courage to make such a commitment - and a willingness to constantly turn away from negativity in favour of goodness and truth. The journey and commitment are more than worth the wondrous rewards you will receive. This is a life path you will never regret having lived. In prayers for courage.
Amen